When traveling around Japan, it is common to see several Japanese Cemeteries along the way. The cemeteries are very different than the cemeteries in the United States. As I have discussed before, space is a premium in Japan. This is also the case with the deceased. Close to 100% of all deceased Japanese are cremated and provided a Buddhist funeral. Cemeteries are typically built on hillsides where building a livable structure would be difficult. Japanese grave plots are also very expensive, costing on average ¥2,000,000 ($20,000).
The grave plots typically include all of the family remains.
The family grave usually has a place for flowers and mourners will create a makeshift shrine.
Also, sticks with the family name and the new Buddhist name given to the deceased are written on the stick.
The naming of the deceased has increased in controversy because the name is associated with the virtues of the deceased and the amount of donation made by the family of the deceased.
As with all of Japan, the cemeteries are meticulously maintained and respected.
I realize this topic is a bit morose. It parallels my mood from watching the election results, regardless of the determined winner. My heart breaks for a country so divided. I truly hope there is peace in our future. Just keeping it real.